(For the duration of this post, you may pretend my user name is "BlueCrewGuyInNJ")
As MA said, the Ultra Satin finish on the fridge is not an exact match to the rest of the appliances, which would be stainless steel with black detail. Ultra Satin is brushed aluminum, silvery but not as shiny as stainless. While the front finish is close to stainless, it's not an exact match - while some people may like it, some may not.
You've picked some good items - here are my suggestions...
I would suggest instead of the Kenmore dishwasher 13463, you take the $10 step-up to 13893 - a very similar model feature wise - but with european styling. (The control panel is not mounted on the front, but on top of the door, only viewable when open.) Its also a bit quiter, at 57dBA instead of 60dBA.
I really like the look they offer, a full solid panel looks a lot nicer to me than a colored panel with a different colored plasticy panel attached to the top. This also presents another opportunity - if you were to get that same dishwasher in black, you would save some money - and it would still match most Stainless Steel and Brushed Aluminum appliances, since they often have black detail. With that in mind, i have another suggestion:
Instead of the coil range in stainless, going up to one of the radiant tops with an ultra satin finish would give you two options in ranges: 96008 has everything the coil range had except the hidden bake element, but costs more than $100 less. 94338 has the same hidden bake element, and adds not only the ability to pick the size of one of the stove elements, but also hot indicator lights for each element. It comes in at just about $30 more than the one you picked.
Picking both the dishwasher i mentioned in black and one of the two ranges in ultra satin, along with the fridge you picked in ultra satin, you would have the stainless look with enough black details on them to match up well with the dishwasher - all adding up to a very elegant and functional kitchen, at a reasonable price.